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Without listening, there’s no conversation
“There is a difference between listening and waiting for your turn to speak.”
Giving the person undivided attention demonstrates respect–and good manners. Interrupting or disregarding the other side is detrimental to good conversation. For everyone to leave feeling good about the interaction, consideration and civility must be part of the equation.
Perhaps most importantly, students should listen louder. What does this mean? Listen for tone, voice inflections and other meaning conveyed without words. American writer Ernest Hemingway famously stated, “I like to listen. I have learned a great deal from listening carefully. Most people never listen.” Students, too, can take away significant information if they listen louder.
How do you encourage your students to listen? What can you learn when you’re not speaking?
Ask More. Know More. Share More.
Create Compelling Conversations.
Jessica Lu, a first-year student at the University of Chicago, interned for Chimayo Press and the Compelling Conversations blog through the summer of 2014. Over the months, she has perused ESL textbooks, analyzed newspaper articles and tested out mobile apps, seeking out ways to inspire discussion. During the fall, the Compelling Conversations blog published her top 10 tips to create compelling conversations outside of the English classroom.
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